COVID-19 is real, poses a dangerous risk, and continues to spread throughout the country. Kaiser Permanente’s infectious disease experts and clinicians agree that staying home for the holidays — not traveling and not gathering — is the best way to protect yourself and those you love.
While staying apart this holiday season is the safe choice, it’s also a tough choice, and experts say it’s crucial to recognize the emotional and psychological impact of that decision.
“The notion of canceling or missing traditional holiday festivities with loved ones is leaving many feeling sad,” according to Hillary Van Horn-Gatlin, PhD, a psychologist at Kaiser Permanente South Sacramento Medical Center. “People are mourning the loss of their important traditions, on top of all they have missed since March.”
If you’re following clinical guidance and choosing to stay home this year, it’s better to break the news early. Having a conversation with your family and loved ones sooner rather than later may help reduce your anxiety and manage others’ expectations.
“Start the conversation with honesty and vulnerability,” said Van Horn-Gatlin. “It may be as simple as saying, ‘I love you, but I have a lot of concern about the holidays this year.’ Emphasize that it was a hard decision to make, but the priority is keeping everyone safe.”
Then, invite your family and friends to brainstorm some creative and different ways to be emotionally close while staying apart.
If you still decide to host or attend an in-person celebration, Kaiser Permanente recommends that you follow the Centers for Disease Control’s considerations to reduce your risk of exposure, for example:
To further protect yourself and others from the spread of COVID-19, always remember to:
“Even during times of uncertainty, it’s important to remain hopeful,” said Van Horn-Gatlin. “We can encourage ourselves and those around us to control what we can and get creative to remain joyful through the holiday season and the rest of this year.”
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